Dimension of True love

Honour

Honour is the recognition, acknowledgement and rewarding of values.

True love is Honour. "For them that honour me I will honour, and they that despise me shall be lightly esteemed" 

Honour is a sacrifice, it must not be one sided. It is not in man's natural disposition to honour so if, and when  he does it there must be a reciprocation. True honour is mutual, we honour the Lord through our worship.  He then honours us back by confirming our words with signs following.

Honour must be vocal, there must be action and motion to back up honour. Do you honour God? Then show it in your giving and sacrifice for Him. You can earn a living by practicing honour. Honour can force people to bless you more than intended, Be sensitive to honour!  Learn it! Wash yourself with the word of God.You will look like a fool until the  blessing of honour start coming. Honour can reschedule a season that shouldn't be at the moment, it opens door to favour unlimited. People have closed the door of favour against themselves because of dishonour.

Never say you love someone you dishonour. "I love children" and they fall you just look away and ignore them..... " I love Jesus".....Really?? What's the action backing it up?

If husband honours the wife, a wise wife must look for a way of reciprocating immediately. There must not be a delay in reciprocating honour. 

There will hardly be fight/quarrel in families and relationships when there is an intentional covenant of communicating honour. Challenges are inevitable but Honour is like a cushion that prepares for the days of challenges. When there is no honour and challenges comes, it wounds more than intended. That is why it's difficult to forgive in relationships and families because there have been an accumulation of dishonour.

Visitors come to your house, your wife prepares a good meal and everyone is commending her good cooking, then you as the husband just laugh and say "that's what God can do" That's not honour enough, it is pride! Find a better way to do honour.

We live in a generation where 'what a man can do a woman can do also..'  so a woman does not see any reason why she should honour a man. That's why successful women sometimes hardly enjoy good marriage because there is a side effect to Dishonour.  Until the Holyspirit tames a woman to that position where she can understand and subscribe to divine order.

When a man loses his job, it is not a reason for a woman to dishonour him No!

There are some cultures that teaches dishonour....that's very wrong. Perfectionist agenda is a failed agenda because God does not wait for men to be perfect. Sincerity must replace perfection in our standards.

  Dishonour

 is the deliberate refusal to discern, acknowledge and celebrate the uniqueness of a person. Dishonour is evil. It trivializes people. It is possible to get addicted to dishonour. Because of your frustration to rise you cut down everyone above you so that they will look like you or you don't see a reason why someone should be given the accolade been given..... It is dishonour and it is devilish. 

Your attitude is very important, for every choice you make prepare for the consequence.

Our world is full of valuable people, Honour all men. 

Message : Apostle Joshua Selman